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**m98_bmx** · February 6th, 08:42 PM

So, i've been with my girlfriend for a year as of this winter. We have a very good relationship. Recently, shes been getting to be very good freinds with this kid Ben who we work with. Well normally if she spent so much time with another guy i would be suspicious. Thing is, hes openly (somewhat) gay. He's told me and her, and confides in a few others at work. Theres no tention between us, i would gladly stick up for this kid any day of the week. Hes good people, regardless of his sexual orientation. Anyways, this weekend my g/f had tickets to a play. She knew i wouldn't be interested, so she asked him to go. Thats ok with me i guess. Then saturday she conviently forgets to tell me that the two of them are going out to dinner together, then going to the play. Now, this subject brings up arguments all the time with us. I'm not a jelous person, but i feel funny with her spending so much time with another guy. I know its irrational and stupid, but i dont know how else to feel. Anyone else know what i mean? Going out to eat and then spending the night together just seems kinda weird from my POV since its my g/f with someone else. I dunno. Am i jelous or irrational? I dont really know how to feel.

**tippmannfronter** · February 6th, 08:53 PM

I know exactly how you feel. Gotta trust her and the gay man tho. If he IS gay...

**JG.** · February 6th, 08:54 PM

Kill him...its the only way..

But seriously, what if he lied?

***D_Smalls*** · February 6th, 08:54 PM

youre probably jealous.. its not a bad thing.. hell im a horribly jealous person when it comes to girls.. just goes to prove how much ya really like her.

but if he is gay, then i guess theres not much you have to worry about.. that is if he is gay. but not many people lie about that to get chicks.. tends to not work. not to mention the ridicule

i guess itd be similar to her hanging out with a girl friend of hers..

if it keeps bothering you.. maybe talk to the guy.. be really nice about it though..

**No1TubaPlayer** · February 6th, 08:54 PM

talk to her, tell her how you feel. communication is key. trust me.. i found out the hard way, and id like to help others avoid that experience.

**m98_bmx** · February 6th, 09:02 PM

We talk about it all the time, i just didnt want to ruin the weekend for her. And guys trust me, hes definately gay. Theres no question. It just is a crappy feeling i get to know shes having a big night and having fun the whole time with him. Even if he is like one of her girlfriends.

**Snowsk5054** · February 6th, 09:03 PM

Chicks, for some reason, like gay guys. Maybe its the fact that, when they hang out with a gay guy, the guy isnt after her to get in her pants, but idk.
Alot of chicks hang out with gay guys. Dont really be jealous. If you are, and you are unsure about him being gay, ask him if he is gay. If he says hes not sure, might wanna keep an eye on your girl. If he is, still keep an eye on your girl. I dont trust people, and he could possibly be lying, so just keep an eye out for her. If something goes down, you will lose her.

**JG.** · February 6th, 09:03 PM

Try to score a three way..

**chromekilla** · February 6th, 09:03 PM

just think of him as a really ugly chick

with a mangina

then things arent so bad

***D_Smalls*** · February 6th, 09:04 PM

well youve got nothing to worry about..

but yeah, i can see how its unnerving.. gay or not gay, hes still a guy alone with your girl.. i can see how itd be ****ty.. not sure what to say though. I suppose ya just gotta tell yourself its really nothing

or go hang out with a lesbien..

**m98_bmx** · February 6th, 09:06 PM

Im currently trying to find one.

**tippmannfronter** · February 6th, 09:06 PM

Payback smalls?hahaha

***D_Smalls*** · February 6th, 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JG.

Try to score a three way..

no.. bad..

3ways were only ment for 2 girls and one guy..

only **** has two guys.

**Gabriot** · February 6th, 09:07 PM

Just think of it as her hanging out with a girl who is her friends, nothing is going to happen. And if it is, then she's not the one for yah.

**N8ive_Snoborder** · February 6th, 09:08 PM

they went to play

then they decided to eat too

dont worry about it

**JG.** · February 6th, 09:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by D_Smalls

no.. bad..

3ways were only ment for 2 girls and one guy..

only **** has two guys.

twas a joke smalls

***D_Smalls*** · February 6th, 09:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JG.

twas a joke smalls

point taken...

**JG.** · February 6th, 09:11 PM

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**N8ive_Snoborder** · February 6th, 09:13 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by D_Smalls

or go hang out with a lesbien..

Quote:

Originally Posted by m98_bmx

Im currently trying to find one.

arent we all

**chromekilla** · February 6th, 09:14 PM

hey, i say as long as your intoxicated enough, and you both stay clear and at different ends, then its perfectly fine

you have to get over the whole "ewww, a guys balls" thing if you ever want to get involved with a gang bang or a line

and girls like the big ol' D to the P