VC8228

Just a quick question. I just broke up with my girlfriend last friday. Now there's another girl in the picture. The problem is that they are friends. How long should I wait to ask the other girl out??

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either way its gonna hurt your ex's feelings..idk..wait long enough so it doesnt seem like you left your ex for the new girl

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OaklandDogs187

Yeah, thats one of the hardest things to do. I could never find the perfect answer. Don't let the new girl get away though.

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Ja289

why dont you openly talk to your ex about it.. and then if she doesnt mind (idk how you broke up) ask the other girl out and ask her if shes cool with it...

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MidwestKidz

ok was your relationship a like long term serious, or short term type of thing

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Ryushi

the correct answer to your question is.....NEVER.

I have never heard of a relationship working out that starts that way. Think of it this way. Your gf broke up with you then (lets say a month) later goes out with a friend of yours. No matter how long (unless it is years down the road and you two are both completly moved on and stuff) down the road it will always hurt and could destroy friendships. I say move on to someone else that isn't in her circle of friends.

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imagineballa991

actually you dont wanna let her get away btu you dont wanna hurt her feelings so what you do is make sure they are both cool with it. I had a similar situation last year a girl i was going out with broke up and It turned out i liked her best friend. So i talked to them both about it and the girl i previously was actually with my going out with her friend.

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VC8228

We were going out for a month, but she still took pretty hard when I broke up w/ her.

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make them hate each other. (note that is plan "F").

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When I broke up with my ex I only waited like 11 days and my ex was like wtf you asshole. Now she's still trying to be all over me and I'm like get off hoe.

But she dosen't even know my girlfriend.

Uhm I'd wait a month or two, just depends on how long it takes her to get over it.

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VC8228

Believe it or not... there are some people on this forum, being that it is for the most part all guys, that have had this problem before.

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i actually just went through this a little while ago. i was dating this girl for about 2 months, and we broke up. i started talking to one of her friends and we knew we were gonna go out, it was just a matter of when. i waited about 3 months in between relationships and my ex hates both me and my current girlfriend. weve been together now for about a month with no problems. point of the story, feelings are feelings. you cant help how you feel, and if you both feel the same way about each other then you should be dating.

paintchick15

does her friend like you back? how close are they?

the best scenario is that she likes you back, and if theyre close, your ex probly knows how she feels and will understand if yall get together. it'll take time for her not to be upset, sure, breakups are hard to get over. wait at least a couple weeks if not longer to try anything.

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VC8228

Yes, she does like me back. I really don't think that this girl would have told my ex because my ex was asking around trying to figure out if I liked somebody else, one of the people she was asking about was this girl. My ex says that she's over me, but it hasn't been long and I wouldn't be surprised if she isn't really yet. Right now I'm thinking that I'll wait a couple more weeks, then go for it.

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I hate when this happend but I just wait and then ask her out so I know she is over me.

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do what i did

start 'seeing' her, right?

be like, i like u a lot and want to be with u (only say this if its true tho) but i dont want to rush things.
thats pretty much the truth (or not if u just wanna get in her pants, whatever)

but ya, that way she knows u r eventually gunna ask her, and at the same time respects that u choose to wait a bit.

talk it with her, ask HER what she thinks

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id say 2 weeks is fine
if she can't get over a 1 month relationship by then, then there's something seriously wrong with her

VC8228

Alright, well I'm hanging out with her on friday night. Do you guys think that I should explain everything to her, like how I like her but don't want to actually "go out" yet, because of the situation with my ex... Or should I wait until I actually want to ask her out, then tell her everything then???

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