I've actually got an idea now. I'm going to attempt to hook one of my best friends up with her. That way, if it works out, I'll at least know she's in good hands for a little while.
Well Im in kind of a mess here with the girl ive been trying to hook up with for awhile. Me and her practically act like we are dating but were not really "together" yet. ANyways she has me so damn messed up sometimes, i dont know if she likes me or not cuz she tells me i have a real good chance of us dating. But sometimes she acts like shes really into me and the nex minute she acts like she doesnt even want to be around me. Its kind of an odd situation. Anyways she is still in love with her ex and she doesnt want to date me quite yet, Even though he cheated on her like 5 times she still wants him back. But wat gets me is, me and her act like were dating,her parents love me " her moms actually trying to get her to go out with me", and were going to prom, we hold hands, kiss, etc. But her ex got ahold of her phone and said they were still dating. She refuses that but me,her, and her ex were all on the phone and he said, which is it me or him, and she said "im sorry brent but i have to pick matt". so i hung up she called awhile later and said they werent going out. Well im gonna cut this short but i really do like her do you guys think i should just give her some time to get her **** straight, after all they were dating for over a year and just broke up a few months ago. Well i just need some advice...smart advice. Thanks
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Well Im in kind of a mess here with the girl ive been trying to hook up with for awhile. Me and her practically act like we are dating but were not really "together" yet. ANyways she has me so damn messed up sometimes, i dont know if she likes me or not cuz she tells me i have a real good chance of us dating. But sometimes she acts like shes really into me and the nex minute she acts like she doesnt even want to be around me. Its kind of an odd situation. Anyways she is still in love with her ex and she doesnt want to date me quite yet, Even though he cheated on her like 5 times she still wants him back. But wat gets me is, me and her act like were dating,her parents love me " her moms actually trying to get her to go out with me", and were going to prom, we hold hands, kiss, etc. But her ex got ahold of her phone and said they were still dating. She refuses that but me,her, and her ex were all on the phone and he said, which is it me or him, and she said "im sorry brent but i have to pick matt". so i hung up she called awhile later and said they werent going out. Well im gonna cut this short but i really do like her do you guys think i should just give her some time to get her **** straight, after all they were dating for over a year and just broke up a few months ago. Well i just need some advice...smart advice. Thanks
Meh, if she really cares about you as much as you think she does, she'll come around.
There's this girl Morgan that I've known for a few months, and we're really good friends. I've already got a good girlfriend for now, so dating Morgan is out of the question.
Morgan broke up with some guy about a year ago, and from what I've heard, it was a really bad relationship. The guy cheated on her, was an all-around asshole to her, and yet Morgan still resisted breaking up with him. There is also a rumor that he raped her, but when I bring the subject up, Morgan won't talk to me. This makes me suspicious.
But recently, Morgan has been talking to him again. This kind of scares me, because she is one of the most kindhearted and forgiving people that I know, a devout Christian, and the kind of person who will do almost anything for a friend. And I also know that the jerkoff that she's talking to again hasn't changed one bit, because he cheated on multiple girls after Morgan.
PBF, I'm in a predicament. I don't want to see her get hurt again, but I'm not physically capable of taking down a 6'2 210-pound 18-year-old meathead without the use of weapons. What should I do about this?
Most of my quality time working on markers is out im garage between 11pm and 1 am. I listen to love line wile I grind away on someone's pride and joy. (just not the same since Adam Corola left...) Any way, this basic issue is brought up almost every night. She was probably abused when she was younger makeing her seak out abusive A-Holes the rest of her life.
She won't even know she is doing it, its just how screwed up she is.
And you my friend have a hero complex (something I suffer from myself, so I can speak from the heart) You want to be the knite in shining armor to "save her" well... It may seem cold but there's not much you can do for her. She needs to realize her own issues and confront them on her own (which she won't do, so go see her at the strip club in a few years when she becomes a dacer.)
All you can really do is try and be a good friend.
As for taking down a 6'2" 210 lb meat head... I'm 6'4 220. give me a ring. I got your back.
or you could do like a friend of mine did when he was threatened about his "teratory". (drug thing that I don't condone but he is clean now, so its all good.) He walked up to the guy, started to act all casual, sucker punched him, ran around the corner, stopped, waited for the guy to come running around the corner and then tripped him. He then kicked him a few times in the right places to subdue him. then climed on top and went to town. (he never had another issue with him.)
you don't always have to be bigger. alot of times just smarter...
Well Im in kind of a mess here with the girl ive been trying to hook up with for awhile. Me and her practically act like we are dating but were not really "together" yet. ANyways she has me so damn messed up sometimes, i dont know if she likes me or not cuz she tells me i have a real good chance of us dating. But sometimes she acts like shes really into me and the nex minute she acts like she doesnt even want to be around me. Its kind of an odd situation. Anyways she is still in love with her ex and she doesnt want to date me quite yet, Even though he cheated on her like 5 times she still wants him back. But wat gets me is, me and her act like were dating,her parents love me " her moms actually trying to get her to go out with me", and were going to prom, we hold hands, kiss, etc. But her ex got ahold of her phone and said they were still dating. She refuses that but me,her, and her ex were all on the phone and he said, which is it me or him, and she said "im sorry brent but i have to pick matt". so i hung up she called awhile later and said they werent going out. Well im gonna cut this short but i really do like her do you guys think i should just give her some time to get her **** straight, after all they were dating for over a year and just broke up a few months ago. Well i just need some advice...smart advice. Thanks
Just ****ing give up man... never get into a relationshipp..
Just ****ing give up man... never get into a relationshipp..
It is a common fact that females are ****ing crazy. for the girl who he just doesn't know if shes into him.
thats called hot cold. Like a faucet or bad shower that is great warm and welcoming/comforting. Then all of a sudden someone flushes a toilet and your balls are frozen and you are screaming and life just sucks. there are actually females whos indoor plumbing are jacked up the same way. Simply saying you are the plumber and throwing your wrench in her pipes isn't gonna solve the problem. This girl needs either electroshock therapy or drugs. like the doctor kind. Im only joking a little bit man. I have seen some completely messed up chicks who think its ok to love one hour and hate the next. its all just that fast for them.
She has to mature to age to perfection and if she just gets older and doesn't age outa this she is simply a lost sit of tits and a complete headache for who ever claims her at the time. If this girl is gonna act that way while you are dating. She will most likely act that way while you are married. It might go away for a while during the bliss years. But after 2 years of wedlock it starts slipping back. yelling for no reason throwing things. just being a downright btich.
Good luck buddy. If you wanna see how that works then go for it. fill us in in a few weeks on how she is insane and we can all discuss the I told you so factor.
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I have quite a quandry on my hands, and I feel like a loser asking PBF about it, but most of my friends are far too immature to talk to about real relationship advice. There's one girl that I trust enough to ask, and I will tomorrow, but I need more than one view on this one I think.
I've sort of been drawn into this relationship with a girl that's 3 years older than me (She's 19, I'm 16). Now, I like this girl, but I'm know I'm far from ever feeling any sort of love for her. I don't think it has any future, I may just hit it and quit it soon, but this isn't really the problem (although if anyone has any advice about how to tell a girl you want out because you don't really like her enough without making her feel bad, do tell).
There is another girl who I met at work, and this girl and I really connect. She's less attractive than the other one, but I like her a hell of a lot more, and I know that it wouldn't take much for me to fall in love with her. She's been the only girl that I've ever had a thing for and NEVER felt the slightest bit awkward around. She knows that I feel this way about, but, sadly, she's in a relationship. The thing is, she and I both know that she'll break up eventually with this guy, maybe soon, maybe in a long time. She also has told me that she'd be with me if it wasn't for him.
She knows about this other girl, and she's told me that it doesn't upset her, although she does get jealous of her when she gets close to me or touches me. She says that it won't affect how she feels for me if I have sex with her or anything, and I do believe her, I know she's not just saying it.
Basically I've decided to at least not get serious with anyone till I've had my shot at her, and she knows this. What I want to know is how far you guys think I should go with this other girl, the one I'm "with" right now. I know I could have her in the sac at the drop of a hat, but the girl I work with is the only thing keeping me from it. I know she won't be upset with me if I do hit it and quit it, but I don't know how I'll feel about it. I know you guys can't tell me this, but I'd really like to see what you'd all do. And don't just say yay or nay, that won't help. Give me some reasoning, something that might help me decide more that how many yes or no votes.
Heh, I'm kinda in a similar quandry at the moment. I've been dating this girl for about 3 1/2 years and things are kinda fading... I think I am attracted to another girl (my best friend) and i know she is attracted to me, but she is in a relationship with another one of my friends, and I am in a relationship so I don't know what I should do.
In your case though, if I were you, I would go with what you think is right. To me there is something somewhat unethical about "hit it and quit it" Ya, it will make you feel great in the moment but what about afterwards, won't you feel like an asshole? I would personally go with your heart on this one, wait on your friend (the one youre actually connecting with) and try to start something that might actually last, trust me it is a much more satisfying way to go, and you'll be much happier with the girl you care for more.
Now, if only I could figure out what to do in my quandry. I want to kinda take a break from my current relationship and kinda be single for once because I think I really love my current g/f but i've never really had any other serious relationship, so how do i know if she is right, you know? Plus, my best friend is more like my brain trust lol. I can tell her anything and never worry about it getting out and not have to worry about being embarrassed. And I know for a fact she likes me, i know i like her, I just don't know if it would work out you know? I'm just kind of afraid of quitting my current relationship (which has gone very well) to try a risk on someone new that I really like, and if it doesn't work out, I'm afraid I might not be able to go back to my current g/f... Ya, I'm confused...
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