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**mLuH** · April 7th, 04:48 AM

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Originally Posted by kenny_1491

My gf is the closest to almost a year then I have ever seen. Her B-day is on the th of November, mine the 5th(It's so nice, I can never forget her B-day lol).

**kenny_1491** · April 7th, 09:23 AM

lol Meant to put 6th.

**toXic** · April 7th, 09:43 AM

This thread continues to amaze me. I guess everybody where I live is just Pedo's. Pretty much, if its within 4 years its all good. Such as, seniors dating freshies.

One thing that really sucks happened yesterday. I met what one could be called the "perfect" girl. Absofreakinglutely beautiful. Extremely smart, similar beliefs, and straight up great personality. The catch, there is always a catch, she lives like 10 hours away.

**mLuH** · April 7th, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by toXic

This thread continues to amaze me. I guess everybody where I live is just Pedo's. Pretty much, if its within 4 years its all good. Such as, seniors dating freshies.

One thing that really sucks happened yesterday. I met what one could be called the "perfect" girl. Absofreakinglutely beautiful. Extremely smart, similar beliefs, and straight up great personality. The catch, there is always a catch, she lives like 10 hours away.

Yeah I'm feeling the same way about this girl I work with....But there's like 2 catches....She recently (like 6 months ago or less) just got out of a 6 year relationship with some guy (she's only 21 btw), and she's thinking about moving about an hour away from me....I really don't know what to do.

Alpha · April 7th, 07:55 PM

I dont have a need for any advice... But my GF just got on birth control.

**kenny_1491** · April 7th, 08:04 PM

BC ftw, my gf started about a month ago.

***D_Smalls*** · April 10th, 05:47 PM

damn it, I thought I was in the member mug shots.. I was like.. what the **** are all these dicks talking about little girls for.

**big_balla** · April 29th, 05:26 PM

What are your guys' experiences (those out of high school) with dating high school girls?

**kenny_1491** · April 29th, 08:50 PM

Well my friend just got dumped by a high school girl who just took him to prom to say she was taking a high school graduate to prom, then started messing around with his best friend. But my friend jay is doing well with his gf who is in high school.

***Wes Himself*** · April 29th, 11:09 PM

weve already spoke of this mike! why do you need anyones advice other than mine? ahha <3

**big_balla** · April 29th, 11:10 PM

Because it wasn't what I wanted to hear.

***Wes Himself*** · April 29th, 11:12 PM

yeah. i dont think ive had a good experience...:cough: emotionally yet. Physically sure... nothing long term though.

**mLuH** · April 30th, 04:05 PM

well high school chicks vary widely. Some can be cool and it can work out in the long run, but others just really are too young and naive to know what they really want yet, and I feel that some high school chicks act different around older/college guys because they are older, and thus the girls think they have to act differently. I dunno, I would suggest becoming their friend for a while, get to know the real them, and then decide from there

**The FrenchToast** · June 9th, 06:17 PM

Hey guys. I'm pretty sure I think i know what i'm gonna do about this but i need a second or third opinion:

So, my gf and i went through a little bit of a rough time and decided to keep working at our relationship. We decided we didn't communicate enough and would tell each other everything. One of the things we decided to talk more about were the people that were hitting on each of us. I told her about all the people that were making a move on me, and she told me about people that were moving on her.

All in all it was just to relieve some built up jelousy that each of us had been feeling

So it's been about a week since then and we're doing really good. She was at my house and was checking her facebook on my comp and left herself logged in. I didn't notice and when i saw Inbox (1), i assumed it was for me. We are in VERY many of the same groups so our inboxes even look really similar. Thats why i didn't even notice i was snooping on HER facebook until after i had already clicked to see who a message was from.

The message was from a guy i had heard her mention once or twice that is in her math class...

When she spoke of him to me, she reguarded him as a loser who just trys to steal everyone's answers all the time.

So here i am looking at the message and FINALLY realizing it's not my facebook i'm logged on to.

It's from the guy and it says: Hey please let me copy some of your answers off the test tomorrow, won't get you in trouble etc etc.... and sorry i didn't visit you at work last night, i got there at 11 and they said you had already left

WHAT?

So her response is : yeah sure you can copy them.....and i get off around 10 30 usually, it's ok.

ok so hear me out guys.....

i know girls have guy friends, but there are a few factors that make this different.

firstly, she and i had a discussion about this sort of thing and SHE was the one who said "i think a girl shouldn't see or hang out with another guy unless the bf is there or is ok w/ it. Basically she was saying that she doesn't really have a need for guy friends. Also, the ONE thing she loved for me to do when we first started dating was to visit her at work...

So part of me is saying, don't bring it up and just trust her

and part of me is saying that she'll respect my accidental find and answer me if i ask her what was it about

What do you guys think?

(i know this might make me sound like an asshat, but i've been dating this girl for 1.5 years, and i KNOW that she doesn't ask someone to come see her at work unless she is flirting...

**Dudeus** · June 9th, 07:58 PM

Talk to her.

God I hate women. They're all sneaky ass *****es.

**kenny_1491** · June 9th, 08:00 PM

Dude I have been here before. Don't think about it, for the first thing. Secondly ask her about it, explain that you didn't realize it was hers and not yours until after you started reading the message, mind you she will prolly do the woman thing and call bs, but it is the only way to get to the bottom of it. Just ask her why he was coming to her job etc etc.

**Dudeus** · June 9th, 08:06 PM

Truthfully, she probably likes this guy. She has gotten bored with your relationship and talked to him and is starting to have feelings for someone else but cares too much about you to tell you or break up with you. She will get super pissy and all "why are you snooping around my life? dont you trust me?", but thats just because you have the upper hand and she is just trying to get that control back.

In the end, if you care for her enough you can probably work it out, but she'll probably just end up cheating on you.

I probably sound like a heartless jackass, but I've had almost the exact same situation happen to me and several people around me. Again, gotta hate women.

**thepunkdrummer** · June 9th, 10:52 PM

just cruise by work to see if he is there. If he is, then just walk in and just tell her you wanted to talk to her. If you stumble across him, just ask why he is there.

Its a good way not to get in trouble about the whole facebook thing. If you are on the rocks, that might end it. Women enjoy some part of their privacy, and she will be uber-pissed if she finds out that you did it. Therefore, trust factor in this relationship is done with.