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January 28th, 07:45 PM
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PBF Dating Advice
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January 28th, 07:47 PM
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Silly Boston Its no Bomb
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yea i posted there and the post went to a different thread then i went to edit and it got all screwed up lol. Im in 7th grade should i stay single?
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January 28th, 07:49 PM
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Alpha told me to repost it here:
There's this girl Morgan that I've known for a few months, and we're really good friends. I've already got a good girlfriend for now, so dating Morgan is out of the question.
Morgan broke up with some guy about a year ago, and from what I've heard, it was a really bad relationship. The guy cheated on her, was an all-around asshole to her, and yet Morgan still resisted breaking up with him. There is also a rumor that he raped her, but when I bring the subject up, Morgan won't talk to me. This makes me suspicious.
But recently, Morgan has been talking to him again. This kind of scares me, because she is one of the most kindhearted and forgiving people that I know, a devout Christian, and the kind of person who will do almost anything for a friend. And I also know that the jerkoff that she's talking to again hasn't changed one bit, because he cheated on multiple girls after Morgan.
PBF, I'm in a predicament. I don't want to see her get hurt again, but I'm not physically capable of taking down a 6'2 210-pound 18-year-old meathead without the use of weapons. What should I do about this?
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January 28th, 07:53 PM
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yea i posted there and the post went to a different thread then i went to edit and it got all screwed up lol. Im in 7th grade should i stay single?
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The question is, are you mature enough to have a girlfriend at that age? If you think you're mature enough, and you can handle it correctly. Then do it. Don't make any stupid mystakes, but I can tell you i've had girlfriends in 5th/6th grade.
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January 28th, 07:59 PM
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Im in 7th grade should i stay single?
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If you can handle it, by all means start having relationships as early as your parents will allow. Experience is good in the long run.
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January 28th, 08:00 PM
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well i had 11 last year. Dumped most of em after a couple of weeks. Yea im mature  Not..
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January 28th, 08:02 PM
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Seems like you answered your own question then doesn't it?
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January 28th, 08:03 PM
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Silly Boston Its no Bomb
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i meant should i this year after last year
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January 28th, 08:03 PM
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Alpha told me to repost it here:
There's this girl Morgan that I've known for a few months, and we're really good friends. I've already got a good girlfriend for now, so dating Morgan is out of the question.
Morgan broke up with some guy about a year ago, and from what I've heard, it was a really bad relationship. The guy cheated on her, was an all-around asshole to her, and yet Morgan still resisted breaking up with him. There is also a rumor that he raped her, but when I bring the subject up, Morgan won't talk to me. This makes me suspicious.
But recently, Morgan has been talking to him again. This kind of scares me, because she is one of the most kindhearted and forgiving people that I know, a devout Christian, and the kind of person who will do almost anything for a friend. And I also know that the jerkoff that she's talking to again hasn't changed one bit, because he cheated on multiple girls after Morgan.
PBF, I'm in a predicament. I don't want to see her get hurt again, but I'm not physically capable of taking down a 6'2 210-pound 18-year-old meathead without the use of weapons. What should I do about this?
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I'm guessing you've only talked to her on the internet? And she won't answer? Try talking to her in school, maybe she will talk to you about it, wait till you're around no one else and then ask her about it.
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January 28th, 08:09 PM
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Thank god for this thread. I was about to snap seeing a "girl problem" thread every two days.
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January 28th, 08:10 PM
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thinking the same thing lol
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January 28th, 08:20 PM
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I'm guessing you've only talked to her on the internet? And she won't answer? Try talking to her in school, maybe she will talk to you about it, wait till you're around no one else and then ask her about it.
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To be honest, I've never had an internet conversation with her. All of our chats are conducted face-to-face.
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January 28th, 08:21 PM
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[quote=pballa12]well i had 11 last year. Dumped most of em after a couple of weeks. Yea im mature Not..[/QUOTE]
There you have it
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January 28th, 08:26 PM
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To be honest, I've never had an internet conversation with her. All of our chats are conducted face-to-face.
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So she just like, walks away from you? Are you friends with any of her best friends? If you are, talk to one of them, I bet they know the answer.
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January 28th, 08:29 PM
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So she just like, walks away from you? Are you friends with any of her best friends? If you are, talk to one of them, I bet they know the answer.
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She'll get angry and say something like, "I have to get to class." And for the record, I recieved the rumor that she was raped directly from her best friend.
I dunno, It makes me feel terrible that she's attracted to a jerkwad that takes complete advantage of her. I just wish she'd listen to what I and others have to say.
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January 28th, 08:44 PM
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Guys, this is a serious thread. Any flaming or trolling will result in post deletion and a warning.
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January 28th, 08:54 PM
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She'll get angry and say something like, "I have to get to class." And for the record, I recieved the rumor that she was raped directly from her best friend.
I dunno, It makes me feel terrible that she's attracted to a jerkwad that takes complete advantage of her. I just wish she'd listen to what I and others have to say.
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That is terrible, I actually would talk to the guy, whether you don't like him or not. Ask him some stuff like "Hey, are you and Morgan going to go back out?" See what he says, then go from there. What if the rumor her best friend said isn't true also? You can't believe every rumor.
Sorry if i'm not helping, but i'm tryin. I need some more info. 
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January 28th, 08:59 PM
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What if the rumor her best friend said isn't true also? You can't believe every rumor.
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You can't help but assume that it's true if she won't even dismiss it as false to me.
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January 28th, 09:03 PM
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You're right, but do you really care THAT much about this Morgan girl. You can also think about it this way.
Help Morgan-Your girlfriend thinks you're amazing and you will get a lil some somethin.
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Help Morgan-Your girlfriend thinks you like her and she dumps you.
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January 28th, 09:06 PM
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If my girlfriend wants to dump me for helping out one of my friends, then so be it. She doesn't put out enough anyway.
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