DyeLKThRest675

So anyway this situation has been making me depress lately... I had a friend who i have known for 3 years already (was considered one of my bestest friends), now have been avoiding me lately. I don't know why he's doing this, but it seems like he rather be talking to his other friends and outcast me. At school, all he does is look at me like a stranger and walks past by me. This really pisses me off. I have been asking couple of my friends for help on resolving this and ask him to come talk to me. The problem is that he nevers fall on to this act. I don't know what has happened all these years. We did everything together before, now it's like everything was just a lie and i have just wasted my life for these past years. God, it's been making me depress and this ball of hatred keeps on restoring more and more. What do u guys think i should do? Do u think i should go talk to him directly and tell him this problem? Please i want some solutions. Thanks!

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martix_agent

it happens man. I could be anything. I had friends do that to me for a year becasue of my girlfriend.

go ask him what's up? if he's still any sort of a friend it'll get him thinking and maybe he'll eventually tell you

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Gabriot

Challenge him to a duel

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martix_agent

yes a duel with swords and armor.

A DUEL TO THE DEATH!!

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Shytkicker

Well, I don't think it's going to help anything to just act like it's cool if it's really not. Of course you should talk to him! If it seems like he just fell in with a different crowd, then it's probably not best to confront him at school where he's going to be self-conscious. A phone call would probably be the best. I'd stay away from using instant messages for this, since that'd make it real easy for him to put up a front about it. Best to get his side of the story in real-time.

If that doesn't work, then it probably wasn't meant to be.

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Mr.McManus

high school tends to do that to friendships, as do girlfriends.

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HuNtS

shytkicker??!?! you cant be serious? you're back!!!!???

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Shytkicker

But for how long...

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Aggression

Ahhhhhhh I was trying to remeber your name when we were making a list of people that had been gone for a while.

I remebered your avatar but couldn't pinpoint the name. I just remeber you made really cool pictures.

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BUBBASR.

its good to have you back shyte.

your friend and you are both being douches. Its depressed. Don't worry about it. If he doesn't want to be your friend then don't bow down in front of him as if he is some god. If you start treating him like he needs to be your friend then he wins. Be indifferent. Don't be a little woman about it ask him why he is being an ass all of a sudden. If he can't tell you then maybe he will think about it...if he tells you then you will know. don't take his ****.

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NYY

It sucks, but it probably happens to everyone. Obviously you should talk to him, but you shouldn't be friends with someone who doesn't want to be friends with you. There's no need for a "ball of hatred." Go plant a tree and start hanging out with other people who actually appreciate your friendship.

nickxjones

yeah if you care then talk to him

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kant_think

Steal his girlfriend, or the girl he likes. If you really want to be friends with him again just talk to him.


And what kinda name is reball?

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Ja289

just wondering - are you a freshman or sophmore?? cause that kind of thing is pretty common during 9th and 10th grade.

if you ask me, i think you should try to talk to him one last time, if he doesn't respond to it, then you know just try to let it go. i know it probably sucks, but thats what HS is about.

i used to have a friend that used to hang out with all my friend in middle school. but in 8th grade, we thought he was annoying so we never invited him anywhere. HS starts he just naturally didn't hang out with us anymore. and now we basically never talk to him. i feel like **** because of that.. its horrible i can't believe i ever did anything like that. i regret it so much, and i feel like he still wants to be rfiends with us again. the only problem is, we've all changed so much since we used to be friends in 8th grade... we all smoke, drink, hang out with girls, do basic teenage stuff. not gonna lie, he's a little behind on the times, and i havent asked himt od o anything cause i don't want to put him in an awkward position.

but this weekend i think im gonna have a BBQ for memorial day, i think ill invite him over so he can chill. i feel really bad, hes a good kid our 8th grade immaturity ruined a perfectly good relationship with him..

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DyeLKThRest675

Nice comments and strategy... I feel better already. I know life is like this and the reality of it just really sucks. We can't always provoke the things we want. I was a junior with a bad depression, i guess now that i'm a senior, i should come out w/ a fresh start again. Of course we all mature in life but, i mean something like this shouldn't be meant to be...

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mavsfan31

Happened to me on a band trip.

It was always these two girls, and me and this other guy. We used to hang out all the time, everything was great. Well the other guy has this girl (totally seperate from the other two) crushing on him BIG TIME. He simply said I have no feelings for you, and just moved on. The girl was obsessing over him and couldn't seem to grasp the fact that he won't date her. Time goes on, she moves on. Then like a few weekends ago, the 2 girls that we're friends with totally ditch all weekend on some band trip. They weren't exactly ignoring us, but we didn't feel like they wanted us around. It hurts, and it still does to know that your not as close as you used to be to someone. I've tried numerous times to figure out what's going on, and they never really gave me an answer. I'm not going to mess with them if they don't want to be friends with me, like NYY said. You just gotta move on, and make new friends.

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mavsfan31

I think you should invite him to your BBQ and work your way up from there. Even if he feels awkward, I think he will be happy to hang out with you guys again.

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NYY

I think the problem is that we all get caught up in our own crap that we forget that the decisions which we make affect other people.

big_balla

Yes, this will do.

But first, make your sig smaller, that always calms me down.

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