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**m98_bmx** · January 2nd, 09:14 PM

Long story short, i dumped this girl and started seeing her best freind behind her back. Trouble is, they arent really best freinds, my old gf is just attatched to this new girl im seeing. We havent told anyone about this relationship between us (well refer to them as Myself, and Ms. Y., and my ex gf will be ms. X.)
So, Ms. Y and Ms. X are kind of not hanging out anymore. Ms. X is still atatched to me hardcore though. Should i tell ms. X about my relationship with Ms. Y? Im not sure if it would be easier to just keep avoiding her or to get it over with so we dont have to keep sneeking around and stuff

***NYY*** · January 2nd, 09:16 PM

you wont get kicked in the balls as hard if you tell her rather than when she finds out herself

**m98_bmx** · January 2nd, 09:16 PM

Thats what im thinking. But i can always use this line "its better to have loved and lost...." right?

***NYY*** · January 2nd, 09:25 PM

or let your new gf tell her, but wait until its raining, and you are standing in mud

**RBEassassin** · January 2nd, 10:21 PM

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Originally posted by NYY
or let your new gf tell her

Nooo. I have to dissagree with you on that one NYY. Relationships between people is horrible. I suggest you just come out and tell her man. Instead of doing it through others.

**m98_bmx** · January 2nd, 10:47 PM

Im so un-confrontational though, i hate doing this sort of crap

**Spudchucker** · January 2nd, 11:07 PM

do it now man... sure shell be mad for a few days but shell get over it.

beats living in a shadow and having her get wicked pissed when rumor gets to her

Power_House406 · January 2nd, 11:18 PM

dump y for a while and have rough makeup sex with ms. x. then dump x and go out with y and get rough makeup sex w/ her to. it's a win win situation really

**Derek Yegan** · January 2nd, 11:27 PM

not when u ghot a baby from two diff people. use a condom!!

!

i would tell x. makes it easier.

**RAIAplayer** · January 2nd, 11:44 PM

I HATE NONCONFRONTATIONAL PEOPLE!!! just because you dont want to make someone feel bad doesnt mean that your being nice to them by lying. TELL THE TRUTH. how would you fell if a girl didnt want to tell you no when you asked her out and instead said yes, and lead you on?? it would suck, just tell the damn truth and stop being a pussy

**m98_bmx** · January 3rd, 02:08 AM

You might have misundersootd me, i meant un-confrontational like i dont feel like telling her because of all the talking, listening and "giving a dam" that will be involved, i dont have a probably being truthful with someone.....cept for this situation really. PH- love the idea but the girl im with now is a keeper, i dont wanna **** things up with her.

**j00_sux0r** · January 3rd, 02:14 AM

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Originally posted by RAIAplayer
I HATE NONCONFRONTATIONAL PEOPLE!!! just because you dont want to make someone feel bad doesnt mean that your being nice to them by lying. TELL THE TRUTH. how would you fell if a girl didnt want to tell you no when you asked her out and instead said yes, and lead you on?? it would suck, just tell the damn truth and stop being a pussy

w0rd to that brotha'

**Warpstoner** · January 3rd, 02:43 AM

just do it when other people are around...DONT DO IT WHEN SHES WITH HER FRIENDS.....do it in public that way she wont get as pissed off about it..she'll just walk away cursing and giving you the bird (nothing bad)...or do what power house said lol

**b_heald** · January 3rd, 12:36 PM

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Originally posted by Power_House406
dump y for a while and have rough makeup sex with ms. x. then dump x and go out with y and get rough makeup sex w/ her to. it's a win win situation really

this is the best plan so far
or try and get them both at once if u can work that

but if u really want some help tell teh X about Y if they arent friends and u dont like her nothing can go wrong

Power_House406 · January 3rd, 12:48 PM

so.......no rough make up sex?

**m98_bmx** · January 3rd, 12:57 PM

no, id rather wait and have better sex with the new girl after i tell the old one what the deal is. Its defiantley more worth it.

**b_heald** · January 3rd, 01:59 PM

i think we need some pics
i know do X then say oh yeah im dating Y then do Y and its all good

**m98_bmx** · January 3rd, 02:07 PM

Pics of sex? what is this place? im outta here....creeps.

shes all the way on the right.

**Jinjiro** · January 3rd, 02:56 PM

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Originally posted by Power_House406
so.......no rough make up sex?

Here, maybe this film will cheer you up. I hope you all like it, because it took me 5 hours to make (more like 5 min).

~Jinjiro

Power_House406 · January 3rd, 03:02 PM

that movie didn't work