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**headshotgirl** · May 24th, 09:15 AM

Hey duoDSG
Good idea with the group thing with more people than her, Thats what I would want.
yeah and keep away from those bad situations there not good at all. I try not to go anywhere that something bad could happen.

**Paintballaholic** · May 24th, 09:26 AM

ya i don't use alcohol, i can get chicks just fine. its not to hard if ur nice (and good looking

). using methods like drinking is for losers who can't get chicks without it.

**Junket** · May 24th, 09:32 AM

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Originally posted by DuoDSG

Believe me, I don't go playing that often...I visit this board far more often than I go paintballing (which is once every 2-3 weeks, at MOST). I flirt plenty...but when you're not the most athletic guy in the school, not many people care about it.

But wait! There may be a glimmer of hope! My best friend is a girl, and she seems like she likes me. What do you think I should do...ask her out or what? And if so, how do I go about doing it? I've never asked a girl out, or been asked out...so I'm clueless. I'm not exactly a "ladies' man"!

Never be afraid to take chances! The worst thing the one you want could do is say no. Just strike up conversation with her (make it interesting so she won't think you're a fruit and a lame-o; girls are weird) and just say something like, "You're a pretty interesting person; how would you like to go <place> with me this <day> at, say, <time>?"

Lastly, always call the shots. YOU set the place and time; this will give her the "Wow, he is the alphamale" feeling. Of course, if this girl is a high school girl (rather than a woman), it will be a lot different. It took me awhile to get my girlfriend (because I am a nice guy, period), and I know why. High school chicks seem to have a special fervent for guys who act like jerks, treat them like crap, barely say the right thing, and only want them to get into their pants. I swear, it's like this:

Male: "You're fat and your friends are losers."

Female: "Like, oh my God! I WANT YOU!"

**Junket** · May 24th, 09:34 AM

No offense to you at all if you are in high school, headshotgirl. I was just speaking of the majority of what I have seen.

**Menace** · May 24th, 01:22 PM

I was going to say what headshotgirl said, but she beat me to it

Have Fun! It's a good movie.

**headshotgirl** · May 24th, 01:29 PM

Junket,
Its cool and your right for some reason girl do go for the jerks, I've found mysefl likeing them too.
But my mom married my dad who was just like that and he to say the least made our lives a living H*ll! I'm soo glad he's gone now though.
But because of that I go for the nicest guy's I can find, Life in could be alot easier without a jerk

**DuoDSG** · May 24th, 06:42 PM

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Originally posted by Junket

Never be afraid to take chances! The worst thing the one you want could do is say no. Just strike up conversation with her (make it interesting so she won't think you're a fruit and a lame-o; girls are weird) and just say something like, "You're a pretty interesting person; how would you like to go <place> with me this <day> at, say, <time>?"

Lastly, always call the shots. YOU set the place and time; this will give her the "Wow, he is the alphamale" feeling. Of course, if this girl is a high school girl (rather than a woman), it will be a lot different. It took me awhile to get my girlfriend (because I am a nice guy, period), and I know why. High school chicks seem to have a special fervent for guys who act like jerks, treat them like crap, barely say the right thing, and only want them to get into their pants. I swear, it's like this:

Male: "You're fat and your friends are losers."

Female: "Like, oh my God! I WANT YOU!"

You do have a point, because to tell you guys the truth...I'm not the guy with the best looks in the school, BUT just about everyone says I'm overly nice. That was demonstrated this wednesday when I made pancakes for ALL MY CLASSES...yep, that's me!

Sorry to break it to you guys, but I never did get the guts to ask her out today...*sniff*...everyone else I asked for the movie didn't have time or want to go, which is bad since school ends next Thursday for me! I didn't want it to be odd that it was just the two of us, so I didn't want to embarass her either...my friend suggested that someone write a note or something to her, so she'd read it and be able to tell me yay or nay. What do you guys think about that idea?

**Paintballaholic** · May 24th, 07:25 PM

ya im kinda the opposite, i got the looks, but i am SOOO mean to ugly girls sometimes. i mean i shouldn't not like them cuz theyre not hot...i am trying to stop my friend pointed it out the other day.

btw duo thats cool that u made pancakes for everyone! and don't worry if ur not the greatest looking, one of my friends isn't too great but he is going out with like one of the top 3 hottest girls in our grade!

**Paintballaholic** · May 24th, 07:26 PM

btw duo ur avatar totally fits ur personallity (sp)!

**Chas Moore** · May 24th, 07:36 PM

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Originally posted by DuoDSG
I agree, Splat King...I feel your pain! I've never had one!!!!!!!

damn, whatwever ive onloy had couple.

**Junket** · May 24th, 08:07 PM

DuoDSG, writing a note to a girl you like that asks her to go out with you will just make her distance herself from you. Girls of all kinds love it when they know that their potential dates have the guts to actually come up to them and talk to them. Then and only then will you even have a chance of her saying "yea" rather than "nay." Take it from the love doctor (yes, me

) because I have been through it all; the acception, the rejection, and the education. I have an acronym for dating that denotes what you should do if you want to get and keep a girlfriend, and I'll give it to you for free since I like ya

:

C- Converse. You absolutely MUST talk, and interestingly, at that.

R- Read. Not the way you think. When I say read, I mean to learn to read the way she thinks; not her mind or a book. When you learn how she thinks, you can appeal to her and become a more interesting person in her eyes. There is nothing more a girl likes than a guys who knows exactly what she wants.

A- ASK! If you want her to go out with you, you must at least get up the guts to ask her! The worst she could do is say "no."

P- Personality. Keep cool around her, and follow the 3-second rule*. Stay calm, be cool, and DON'T GET NERVOUS! Acting like a doofus can ruin you as well, so DON'T DO IT!

O- Open up. Be open-minded, and do be afraid to try new things.

L- Looks. I don't mean the looks you are born with, but I mean that you should try to fix your hair to look nice and neat, sit up straight, and dress appropriately. Don't dress like everyone you normally see with the T-shirts of their favorite bands and pants that don't fit them even with belts; I'm talking about dressing to YOUR liking, and YOURS only!

A- Attitude. Keep a level head. Don't let what a girl says or does to you get to your head. If she rejects you, screw her; she's not worth it. If she doesn't even give you a chance, she deserves a reciprocated effect.

H- Hygeine. Take a shower every day, wash your hair, brush your teeth, wear deodorant, and get some Crest Whitestrips to whiten your teeth. I even use them, and I have the nicest smile in school now.

Follow CRAPOLAH, and you will have a good chance of getting a girlfriend, or even a soulmate (if you believe in such a thing), and keeping her. One more thing: DoDoStuStu. No, that's not Japanese; it means, "Don't Do Stupid Stuff." Be yourself, plus an added dose of cool! Now, go for it, DuoDSG!

* 3-second rule:

When in conversation, do not prolong a response past 3 seconds. What I mean is, do not sit there and think about what to say; that will ruin it. you have to be improvisational. Think fast, and get your response in before that 3 seconds of silence rolls in.

**Junket** · May 24th, 08:35 PM

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Originally posted by headshotgirl
Junket,
Its cool and your right for some reason girl do go for the jerks, I've found mysefl likeing them too.
But my mom married my dad who was just like that and he to say the least made our lives a living H*ll! I'm soo glad he's gone now though.
But because of that I go for the nicest guy's I can find, Life in could be alot easier without a jerk

I know exactly how you feel. My stepdad is an absolute ass, and nothing can change that. I love my father more than anything, and I wish I could wake up in the morning, go into the next room, and see him there. But I have to wake up to something to the effect of "Get the **** out of bed or you'll have no more PlayStation 2 , computer, or paintball to entertain you! All you will be able to do is study and get better grades." This coming from a loser who got all Ds in school (now he's in the military) to a kid (yes, me) who gets straight As. Then, I have to go to bed to this: "You better light a fire under your ass and get into that bed or you'll find yourself going to bed an hour earlier tomorrow!" *Sigh!* So much cassuism these days.

Anyways, setting aside my problems, I'm glad you've changed your ways, headshotgirl!

**headshotgirl** · May 24th, 09:00 PM

Thanks Junket,
Sorry about you dad that sucks sounds alot like my dad,He gets on my nerves I hate going to see him but I have to.....court ordered it.

**Junket** · May 24th, 09:09 PM

Man, I love seeing my father, but I can only see him maybe once a year due to school and all. Instead, I have to deal with my stepdad everyday. The worst part is, he is retiring from the military soon, so I will have to deal with this loser for a long time. EVERY time I come home from school, it will be "Clean the backyard, or you know what'll happen." Ay, stepdads do suck indeed.

**headshotgirl** · May 24th, 09:13 PM

I ment your step dad sorry, you step dad sounds alot like my dad.
sorry bout that

**jag8** · May 24th, 09:47 PM

duo, jus ask her out in person. notes, phone, IMs, having a friend ask for you, are what you would do in 6th or 7th grade. just try not to be a buddy to her other wise she'll always see you as a buddy, and not as a date. if you ask, im sure she'll say yes.

**Junket** · May 24th, 10:07 PM

In other words, she's waitin' for ya, DuoDSG!