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**Paintballaholic** · May 24th, 11:37 PM

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Originally posted by chromekilla
get her a lil drunk and the rest will hopefully come naturally

**Menace** · May 24th, 11:51 PM

and we wonder why girls think guys are just after one thing.

**headshotgirl** · May 25th, 12:27 AM

Seriously, I hope I don't ever meet any of your guys, ya sound like trouble to me

**Paintballaholic** · May 25th, 01:10 AM

**Chas Moore** · May 25th, 01:25 AM

ive learned that going through your friends is a big mistake. Talk to the girl about it. If she likes you, shell let you know. Im not the best looking kid, but the girls just come because of the way i handle it all. Be very nice, and listen to what they say. Just act like yourself, and dont pressure to much, that can scare them. Good luck, tell us how it goes.

**headshotgirl** · May 25th, 01:30 AM

YES! a guy who listens to what you have to say.
That will help you out alot.
It makes us girls feel so special

**Chas Moore** · May 25th, 01:38 AM

told ya duo

**DuoDSG** · May 25th, 09:17 AM

Well, thanks everyone for the help you guys have given me...but the only problem (like I said before) is that school ends next Thursday, so I'm running out of time...and I don't want to embarass her, since I only see her during my last class of the day, and I'm afraid of making her look bad above all else.

Then again, we're both in Student Government (which I convinced her to do), so we'll see each other just about every week during the summer...but that doesn't guarantee anything.

Oh, and one other thing...she's a model. Literally. She works for a modeling agency, and she's even getting to go to a photo shoot in Italy (all paid for), so I kinda seem pathetic compared to her. We talk all the time, and she's down to earth (which is absolutely wonderful!), but she's absolutely gorgeous. Don't get me wrong- I was sitting in that class for half of the trimester and didn't think much of her (since she's quite shy), but only once I got to know her did I consider her a really good friend (and attractive, too!). You see, I'm not the best-looking guy in school, but she's easily the most beautiful girl in school (no joke), and I don't want her to look bad just because I'm not anywhere at her level.

And Junket, with regards to your message, I do a lot of those things already-

1. I converse with her every single day...I've got that down!

2. Oh, let me tell you...I know how she thinks. And it's kinda weird, because she thinks a lot like the way I do! We don't cuss, we are very tolerant of people, we're both down-to-earth...you tell me if I got it right!

3. Asking is where I fall apart...I just don't want to embarass her in front of everyone by asking her out. She's an awesome friend, but I'm afraid that if she says no then we still can't be friends...she's one of a kind, and I don't want to lose her no matter if we're dating or not- she means that much to me personally.

4. I'm cool around everybody...I don't flame anyone (unless I feel they're being a jerk to the entire group), I'm extremely tolerant of people...but I can get nervous around her (if you knew her, you would be nervous too). A little help?

5. I'm open-minded, no doubt about that. No problems there!

6. In terms of looks, I try my best to look good...I put gel in my hair and make it look pretty spiffy, I have my own sense of style (different than everyone else I've seen so far), and I have been complemented on it by various people too!

7. You have no idea how insane I am on hygene...in a day, I take 2 showers, brush my teeth 3 times, but I'm going to take your suggestion about the whitestrips seriously...I'm sure I can improve somehow!

Sorry about the long post, but I had to tell you guys EVERYTHING, so that way I can figure out what to do next (with your help). Thanks for enduruing it all!

**Junket** · May 25th, 12:28 PM

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Originally posted by headshotgirl
Seriously, I hope I don't ever meet any of your guys, ya sound like trouble to me

HAHA! I feel your anxiety

**Junket** · May 25th, 12:34 PM

DuoDSG, now that I see what you are talking about with your friendship, and, from what you have described to me, I would say that you definitely have something special, and I would say that you should keep the same status you have now. I originally thought that you wanted to go out with a girl you admired from afar. Friendships are the best things you will ever come across, and ruining them will make you hurt for the rest of your life. So, keep that friend, mister!

Now that you've seen my effeminate side, I doubt anyone here will look at me the same again or read my posts without saying, "Man, that Junket it a sissy-boy." Ah, the things we sacrifice for others

**jag8** · May 25th, 01:18 PM

its kinda nice to see a differant side of everyone though. most of the time all you see is what upgrades you should or shouldnt get, how to fix that leak, or why you should get that gun over this gun.

**Menace** · May 25th, 05:20 PM

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She works for a modeling agency, and she's even getting to go to a photo shoot in Italy (all paid for), so I kinda seem pathetic compared to her.

Duo, don't worry about that. Looks are not everything. (wow! A guy just said looks are not everything!) Looks only get the other person talking to you, your personally keeps them talking. So don't think about yourself that way, just be yourself!

**DuoDSG** · May 26th, 12:23 PM

Just a question...so you think there's no chance for the two of us being together? If that's the case, sure I'll stay friends...I'll do everything I can to keep it that way. But if there is a chance, should I wait for her to make the first move, or should I take that risk myself? You guys are the dating experts...you tell me!

**jag8** · May 26th, 12:52 PM

my dad has one of those huge posters that says this:
-OPPORTUNITY-
you cant leave your foot on first base and steal second base.

SEIZE THE DAY! if you dont ask her out then someone will. i made this mistake and never asked my best friend out and well.....someone else did. i just wish i had.

**Menace** · May 26th, 01:35 PM

should you ask her out?.....Well what do you feel, are you always thinking about her? And is she giving you any signs?
Signs like,
Touching you or when you touch her does she pull away or smile or do nothing? If she pulls away then don't but if it is any of the other two things then you got a shot.
Does she laugh at the stuff you say? Thats a good sign, that's a real big sign.
Does she talk about other guys in front of you? Sounds weird but if she does then she may be trying to make you jealous so you will ask her out.
Looking at you. Make eye contact and don't break it until she does. Smiling during this time is great.
Oh yeah, the last thing you can do is wink. Really, it sounds corny I know but ask any girl a good smooth wink can make any guy look good. But don't give any hand jesters while doing it, like a gun or making any sounds with your mouth, just give her a nice wink after you two laugh about something.

I am no expert (but thanks anyway) I just have read and tried some things. Some work some don't. Good Luck!

**Paintballaholic** · May 26th, 02:08 PM

we should change the name of this thread to "Dating Advice"

**Menace** · May 26th, 04:16 PM

lol, yeah

**Junket** · May 26th, 10:36 PM

Well, it's good to have a change of subject every once in awhile.