need your help - Paintball Forum - Paintball guns and gear forums

Reply

Old April 23rd, 2006, 01:45 PM   #1 (permalink)
The World Is Yours
 
CH4OS's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Posts: 1,860
need your help

yeah.. im usually not one to share my hardships online. but theres always time for a first... me and my mom fight every day. i dont mean little fights over laundry and chores. i mean screaming so everyone in a mile radius can hear us and her throwing **** at me. she has alot of **** in her life thats not going right and i dont blame her to be pissed about it but she takes it out on me. im like her little punching bag whenever she has stress. anyway today we had one of the biggest fights. i basically told her she has never been there for me and she only cares about herself. and then she told me every night she thinks about dieing and what if she commit suicide. at the time it didnt bother me because i was to pissed. she told me she was leaving and shes not coming back. shes gone now and i didnt stop her. i told her to go see a phsychiatrist (sp?) and get her **** together but im starting to worry about her a little bit. i mean she really was never a parent to me but you worry about people youve lived with all of your life.. im thinking about calling but i have work in 10 minutes. and what if its to late when i get back and shes gone. i dont think id be able to live with myself knowing i was the cause of my moms death.
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
CH4OS is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
Old April 23rd, 2006, 02:02 PM   #2 (permalink)
© 2006
 
Carmas's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Posts: 1,831
If you really think it's a true possibility, don't go to work. Call her, and wait for her to get home.
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Carmas is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 02:10 PM   #3 (permalink)
Taking Back Control
 
crustybug's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2005
Location: West Bend, WI
Posts: 2,191
Quote:
Originally Posted by Carmas
If you really think it's a true possibility, don't go to work. Call her, and wait for her to get home.

id agree... dont go to work if youre that worried......just call in sick...
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


Quote:
The same argument you make could apply to cars, paintball guns, prostitutes, and firearms.
crustybug is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 02:19 PM   #4 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 335
ya call her and wait
thats sad bro
localCO is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 02:39 PM   #5 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Feb 2002
Posts: 1,840
Yeah dude I've had some pretty badass fights with my parents in high school, its pretty normal. Call her and leave a message at the very least.
m98_bmx is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 02:51 PM   #6 (permalink)
chicks dig scars baby!
 
Skate and Paint's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: kansas
Posts: 2,477
i got into a similar fight with my dad this year...just not to the extreme of death. i told him that hes a ****in dick and he makes everything in my life a living hell and hes a horrible parent. and wen he almost cried (hes a big dude) i realized what i had said. just try to sit down and talk with her, dont be mean and get mad, even if she does. believe me i know it can be hard. but just try to TALK.

dont go to work....call her man
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Skate and Paint is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 03:21 PM   #7 (permalink)
ˇViva La Rob!
 
Ja289's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Long Island, NY
Posts: 6,076
my older brother and my parents had a fight like that a few times when he was going to community college, but after that year he's matured so much.. and hes probably closer with all of us than ever before.

but dude, that sounds pretty intense. i would just not go to work, this is much more important..
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Ja289 is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 03:36 PM   #8 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Feb 2002
Posts: 1,840
Quote:
Originally Posted by ja289
my older brother and my parents had a fight like that a few times when he was going to community college, but after that year he's matured so much.. and hes probably closer with all of us than ever before.

but dude, that sounds pretty intense. i would just not go to work, this is much more important..
Same exact thing happend with me. I was at a community college last year, and I REALLY needed that year to get out of the house. Things were really bad that whole year.
m98_bmx is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 03:50 PM   #9 (permalink)
ˇViva La Rob!
 
Ja289's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Long Island, NY
Posts: 6,076
well the reason he was so angry was because he was pissed all his friends went away and he didnt.. he sort of blamed my parents for not motivating him enough and it was a whole stupid thing, on both theirs parts. but he's going to UB anyway and enjoys it and everyone sort of forgot about where he used to go to college..
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Ja289 is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 03:52 PM   #10 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 312
Wow. Call her and don't go to work. Things will work out.
PaintballMisfit is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 04:56 PM   #11 (permalink)
The World Is Yours
 
CH4OS's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Posts: 1,860
i texted her at work asking if she was ok and she just responded with a yeah and shell be home tomorrow.. wonder where she is
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
CH4OS is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 05:36 PM   #12 (permalink)
chicks dig scars baby!
 
Skate and Paint's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Location: kansas
Posts: 2,477
Quote:
Originally Posted by CH4OS
i texted her at work asking if she was ok and she just responded with a yeah and shell be home tomorrow.. wonder where she is
coolin off....

sit down and write down somethings u may wanna say to her wen she gets back. not mean things, but wen ur talking with her
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
Skate and Paint is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 06:03 PM   #13 (permalink)
i play for keeps
 
dhill0413's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Location: los angeles
Posts: 7,001
If ur worried about suicide call 911 and say your mom is gonna commit or you think she is.
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.


To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.

Model 98

All these guns are gone. One by thief, two by fire. The memories persist.
dhill0413 is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 07:56 PM   #14 (permalink)
 
Join Date: Aug 2004
Posts: 423
Quote:
Originally Posted by dhill0413
If ur worried about suicide call 911 and say your mom is gonna commit or you think she is.
Yeah i agree with that. She really needs to see a psychiatrist though if she is thinking about commiting suicide cuz yall are gonna fight sometime later and it's gonna be the same situation.
EverLong is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Old April 23rd, 2006, 08:13 PM   #15 (permalink)
The World Is Yours
 
CH4OS's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Posts: 1,860
i talked to her on the phone and she seems alright. shes spending the night with my grandma. shes over there alot now since she just had a stroke. she said shell be home tomorrow and we will work it out then
__________________

To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.



To view links or images in signatures your post count must be 10 or greater. You currently have 0 posts.
CH4OS is offline View My Blog!   Reply With Quote
Reply



Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools

Posting Rules

Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are On


VerticalSports
Baseball Forum Golf Forum Boxing Forum Snowmobile Forum
Basketball Forum Soccer Forum MMA Forum PWC Forum
Football Forum Cricket Forum Wrestling Forum ATV Forum
Hockey Forum Volleyball Forum Paintball Forum Snowboarding Forum
Tennis Forum Rugby Forums Lacrosse Forum Skiing Forums
Copyright (C) Verticalscope Inc Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2019, vBulletin Solutions, Inc. Search Engine Optimization by vBSEO 3.6.1