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Old March 18th, 2003, 09:30 PM   #1 (permalink)
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School hasnt been all that great lately. At the begining of the year, everyone was shocked to find out a 10th grader in my school had taken his own life.This is the first time something like that has happened to me. It was really really wierd.
A month or so later, we learned another 10th grader in our school had her mother take her own life. The same day, that girl intentionally ran out into an busy street and was struck by a car. Despite her legs she was fine. Its wierd to know that this could happen to someone that I see everyday.
A couple months went by without incident until one day. We learned one of our school councilers had his car break down on the side of the road one night. He got out to see what was the problem and them we struck by a drunk driver who was going 60+ and didnt even touch his breaks. This made everyone in our school very sad. He was very well known, and so many people loved him. We had a day off for a memorial service.
And remeber the girl whos mom took her own life? Well yesterday I learned that on sunday, she walked out to the side of the road, pointed a gun under her chin and fired. A helicopter flew in and got her. Luckily the shot didnt kill her. It got stuck in her eye socket. She is currently in critical condition and in a coma.

Im not here to get sympathy in any way. Im here to ask you for your prayers to help her to pull through and survive. Thanks for anything you guys can do.
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Old March 18th, 2003, 09:33 PM   #2 (permalink)
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thats pretty sad dude, there was a girl in grade school that killed herself but thats about it for me
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Old March 18th, 2003, 09:35 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Sweet Jesus dude.
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Old March 18th, 2003, 09:37 PM   #4 (permalink)
 
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Ya same thing happend at my school. It was like november when this girl commited suicide by taking some pill and drinking a crap load of alcohol.
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whoa man thats pretty messed up
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Old March 18th, 2003, 09:39 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Try to talk to the girl (if you can see her) and tell her not to kill herself. If she tries to do it twice, chances are that she will do it again. We don't want that to happen. Luckily, she is a bad shot that she didn't die the second time though. This is sooo sad man, I feel ya.
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Old March 18th, 2003, 09:51 PM   #7 (permalink)
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same thing i was thinking, god is there something in the water at your city?
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Old March 18th, 2003, 10:29 PM   #8 (permalink)
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holy crap lableskate, thats such a huge freak accident... running into a street after being chased by bees, jesus. man that woudl suck do bad.
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Old March 18th, 2003, 10:37 PM   #9 (permalink)
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someone played a sick joke on me and told me that one of my closest friends was hit by a drunk driver and was killed. god it was ****ing horrible because i belived it...
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Old March 19th, 2003, 07:40 AM   #10 (permalink)
 
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it sound like you're going through a messed up time in you're community. You should talk to her and spend as much time with her as possible. That way she'll feel loved and feel that she has a reason not to take her own life. In the end though it's up to her and she has to overcome her feelings on her own. You might want to check out Andrew's online teen advice center. Maybe someone can post up the link to it.
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Old March 19th, 2003, 09:00 AM   #11 (permalink)
 
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I've got a couple friends kinda goin through the same thing over here. It is a real sucky time, I know what you're going through. Just keep ya head up, these bad times will pass through. And what would be worse: Having somebody die when you haven't tried to stop them? or Having somebody die when you at least talked to them and gave them your feelings? Just give it a shot man. I feel ya I'll ttyl.
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I don't get why people think there is no way out but suicide.
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Old March 19th, 2003, 02:56 PM   #13 (permalink)
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You might want to check out Andrew's online teen advice center. Maybe someone can post up the link to it.
http://www.teenadvicecenter.com/forum/upload/index.php

Anyway, my prayers go out to the girl, and may god Bless her enough to live through it.
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Yeah, my prayers also go out to those people. God gave you one life and on life only. Use it to the fullest.
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Old March 19th, 2003, 03:43 PM   #15 (permalink)
 
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Oh my God, man... that's got to be the saddest story I've seen on this forum. My deepest sympathies, dude.

I do have one question, though... that girl that shot herself: why did she want to kill herself so much? Had she never gotten over her mother's death?
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Yea just make her feel like life is worth living and she wont do it hopefully. and be sure to explain exactly how u feel, dont beat around the bush.
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that is sad, ... death is sad, (thanx adam and eve) . well anyways... it is sad, im sorry man... one of my closest friends, his sister drank bleach and died one day... a girl on graduation day, slit her wrist and fassed out in the bathroom... ( a long time ago) when i was train hoping with my friend... i was introduced to herion, but never did it (im happy for) and well they died... OD on herion... they died right in front of me.. its weird.. and we were on this roof.. and this kid pushed some girl off of the building and she died, i think, not sure...
as for me, i have cut my wrist over 15 times, i have burn my wrist with metal.. so bad that the doctor had to place a plastic tube in my arm to keep my vein working, and stich me back up...
yea, im on medication now, but as for my arms, i am scared for life its a bad thing i did... i mean, if i wear a normal shirt, you could see like 5 scars just at a glance!.. so yea, i ussually wear long sleeve shirts.... i have these sleeping pills, and i tried to od on them once. i took 5, im only soppused to take half or 1 .. well i threw up.. well im glad im alive,..
i live off of medication though, i have been on for 2 years.. and im still gonna be on it for like 2 more... so yea... sorry to start talking abou tme...
sorry about the mom and the kid and the killing, it truly is sad
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Old March 19th, 2003, 06:55 PM   #18 (permalink)
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I do have one question, though... that girl that shot herself: why did she want to kill herself so much? Had she never gotten over her mother's death?
Well Its actaully terrible what happened. Her dad took his own life, then that depressed her mom so much she couldnt handle it, then her mom commited suicide. And now this. Its just too much at once.

Ozzie: Why did you cut your wrist so many times? are you trying to kill yourself? Because if you are, stop. Suicide is a terrible choice. There are sooo many other ways to deal.

And thanks everyone for your suport. It means alot. I'll report what I hear.

It was wierd though, after she got hit by a car, I saw her in school a few days later. She looked fine. She was happy and such. And I also saw her the friday before her attempt. And she was smiling and looked perfeclty fine. I was happy for her. But this was a shock because I didnt think she was going to do something like this.
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look agg. (ill call you agg for short!?!?) .. ok well agg. lol...
i have, depression, anxiety, add, bipolar, social phobia, i went through a crazy stage, it was b4 i got on my medication.. my mom cired for me every night!... it was hard on me, i finally realized, i am hurting more then just myself... you have no clue how i fet when i went through all that!... you have no clue!!!

it was so weird.. but pain seem'd to take it away, at least, for a while.. then the scar heels and its off to another scar.. i wont do it anymore!.. i dunno.. you dont understand what you feel inside,.. i cant even describe it.. well i dont wanna go on this topic so ill stop
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haha, thanx man!
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