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Old August 6th, 2004, 06:56 AM   #1 (permalink)
 
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Unhappy Relationships & Cheating

Let me set this up for you, if I may:

I met a rather intellectual girl online; she was from Illinois, I, from Michigan. After a few days of talking we found it mutual to meet in person and thus decided to meet that weekend. She would come over for a movie, and that would be pretty much it. I'm not that kind of guy, and she knew that. To make this a long story short for you, she was tired, and I jokingly said, "I'll just drive you home... In your car." She amazingly agreed. To end this beginning story, we fell "in love" and I lived with her in Illinois.

Speed up a year:

Her birthday was Dec. 23rd.. Her main goal in life, as she stated, was to get married and start her life. I decided to propose to her on her birthday. We would then have a joyous holiday and because my birthday was the 1st of the year, it would be fun all-in-all. I put my newly boughtcar on the cutting block and put it up as collateral for a loan, so that I could get her an engagement ring. $982 later, I am well and happy with the ring... As is her Mom. To make this second story short... She says, "No." as I propose and follows it up by dumping me... On her birthday... Two days before Christmas. Devastated, I heartedly agree to spend the holidays together so that neither of us is "alone".

Third story:

We are going to speed this all up... I was the second person she slept with... As of about mid-June... She was up to seven.

Fourth part:

I got an IM from her cousin last night... She cheated on me... I decided to text her... Her responses, "Egh... If it's any condolence, it was the worst sex I've ever had." Her response to if she had only cheated on me once? "Besides the guy I lost my virginity to? Once." She went back to the first guy... The guy she lost her virginity to... When I asked her how many times... Her response? "Multiple times."

The final word:

I'd like to say a few things I did not mention... Due to her actions and my love for her and how much I felt it was destroyed, I ODed. It does not matter what on, but I did it because of the fact that I was SO in love with her and nothing matterd more to me then her. Of course, I survived, but as time went on, I got over it. Now this piece of information. If this had come to me then... I would have surely died as I am sure I would have done more to myself.

I am now seeing a beautiful girl that works for a local radio station here in the corner of Michigan. (For those of you Michigan-ders, it's 89x.) She is my star and what seemingly keeps me "whole". I'm still re-couperating, but without her... I'd have another hardship on my hands.

Anyone who reads this... Thank you. Well, for putting up with my long post and for any comments you make.

-Jason a.k.a "Weddingz"
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Old August 6th, 2004, 10:23 AM   #2 (permalink)
 
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Is that you, or someone else?

If it's you, that sucks big time. That little hoe's gonna get her come-uppance one day... She did you a terrible wrong, and karma never let's that go unnoticed.
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Old August 6th, 2004, 10:33 AM   #3 (permalink)
 
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SLAP HER!!! its the answer to everything. Anyways, that really sucks, but its good that now you have someone else.
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Old August 6th, 2004, 10:37 AM   #4 (permalink)
 
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Dang... I always thought you were nothing more than a hardcore baller Shotgunweddingz. I didn't know there was deeper emotions under your outer layer of whipping kids who's fathers tell you to in paintball.

I truly am surprised... Wow...

BTW: That sucks!
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Old August 6th, 2004, 10:42 AM   #5 (permalink)
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girls are mans weakness, what can i say. they can complete your life and they can also destroy it. but good to hear you're doing better and have found someone else...
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Old August 6th, 2004, 10:51 AM   #6 (permalink)
 
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hey, is your new girl someone i would know? I listen to 89X all the time.

PS. someone in Canada might know 89x too because they have a station in Canada
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Old August 6th, 2004, 11:03 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Old August 6th, 2004, 11:15 AM   #8 (permalink)
 
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Yeah, it was me...

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hey, is your new girl someone i would know? I listen to 89X all the time.

PS. someone in Canada might know 89x too because they have a station in Canada
Her name's Sarah and she's an intern for the station. She's everywhere.

As to those other comments? Thanks guys. Yeah, it does suck, but I've moved on. I found that out yesterday and we broke it off 7 months ago. I mean... What the... ... ... Poo.

As far as lightin' up lil' kids...? Let's just hope there are no n00bs this weekend... I'm pulling a FUBAR and bum-rushing the whole damn party.

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Old August 6th, 2004, 11:20 AM   #9 (permalink)
 
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sorry dude, that REALLY sucks. but keep in mind, one day she'll get aids and die a horrible death. i hope the chick your with now likes you more than that hoe you met on the web
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Old August 6th, 2004, 11:27 AM   #10 (permalink)
 
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A great lesson is to be learned here: Internet relationships lead to despair.

Any woman/girl who is willing to meet after a simple chat on the internet is a woman/girl who you really don't need to meet.
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Old August 6th, 2004, 11:35 AM   #11 (permalink)
 
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sorry dude, that REALLY sucks. but keep in mind, one day she'll get aids and die a horrible death. i hope the chick your with now likes you more than that hoe you met on the web
That reminds me, of I believe the name is, "Mean Girls".

"If you have sex, you will get pregnant, and you will die."

"If you have sex, you will get clamidia (sp?), and you will die."

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Old August 6th, 2004, 11:45 AM   #12 (permalink)
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I feel for you buddy, but in the end a girl is just a girl, and you need to not let yourself get so overwhelmed by your feelings for her. As much as you like to believe they are perfect, they are only human, and they all have their faults. I am not saying that all girls will cheat because its simply not true, but they will all hurt you to some degree. Just treat them with respect, but not adulation, or they will not respect you back. I've found out the hard way that you can not treat a girl as though she means the world to you because then she becomes your superior, and she will become tired of you. I hope the girl you are with now is the one to complete your life, but don't overwhelm her or she too may be scared off.
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Old August 6th, 2004, 12:04 PM   #13 (permalink)
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89X.. from michigan right? yeah i get that hear.
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Glad everything is well now. And 89X isnt a bad station.
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Old August 6th, 2004, 12:22 PM   #15 (permalink)
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i dont think ive ever heard of 89x.... and im in lansing
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Old August 6th, 2004, 12:28 PM   #16 (permalink)
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I'm sure he appreciates everyone's concern over whether or not the radio station that his lady friend works for is a good radio station. Way to attend to the issue at hand guys.
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sorry dude, that REALLY sucks. but keep in mind, one day she'll get aids and die a horrible death. i hope the chick your with now likes you more than that hoe you met on the web
what if she already had aids?
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Old August 6th, 2004, 09:44 PM   #18 (permalink)
 
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then she will die a most paintful death. and then we'll be all like "ha *****."

not really, but it's just something to think about
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Old August 6th, 2004, 09:58 PM   #19 (permalink)
 
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I listen to 89x sometimes

wow that must suck
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Old August 7th, 2004, 12:26 AM   #20 (permalink)
 
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Dude, you let yourself get played.

.. and you ODed because you took to many drugs, not because of anything she did.
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Old August 7th, 2004, 01:06 AM   #21 (permalink)
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cheating is not cool. i myself cant do it. personally, if you really love her, try to work it out. idk though, she didnt seem like she cared. honestly, most people that really care and love you back would try to lie the first time you confront them, especially over a ****ing text, in hopes of not hurting you. just talk to her about it and see how it goes.

yes, girls are mans weekness. i am in love w/ one right now and i dont think she feels the same way (she is my best friend though). some of you guys already know about this. i was really pissed at her for a while, but i am not anymore. i told her i loved her last night and i hope things end up well. she never cheated on me though. i love her more then anything and i would give up everything to be with her (outside going to college). she is the most important thing in my life and i would do anything to be back with her.
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Old August 9th, 2004, 11:43 PM   #22 (permalink)
 
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Thumbs down What... The... Fuxxors...?

Tonight has been a "bold" night. That radio-station girl and I broke it off. I'm not ready to date anymore, so this is it. I'm going to focus on my life and stop loking for that "someone". Anyhow, check this out. Please, be adult like and don't respond to her LJ anonymously or what-not...

The post.

I had to defend myself of course... She ripped on me for PBing... I can't believe that. Sorry, but I had to stand up for myself.

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Give me her AIM name and I'll spam the whore
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Don't do a ****in' thing you twit. It's a simpel break-up, leave it at that. She's a very nice girl.

Onething I failed to mention is that she has her head on straight. Two jobs (one of which is a 40-hour-a-week job.), a double-major student getting her Bachelors at the end of the semester, and working the intership at 89x.

I know she is stressed.

I suppose it just had to be done. I don't hate her, and yes, I still care for her. Obscenely.

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