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i hate this
my gf ignores me everytime we go out with friends or anyone
but when its just the 2 of us its fine
it really pisses me off
i like this girl alot and she likes me but it just so hard to get her to even talk to me
ive only got her to talk to me really openly maybe twice and that was a ***** to do
i dont want to break up with her bc i like her alot but i dont konw what to do
any ideas??
 

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shut the **** up bob
she likes me and i know it she is just very bad at showing it

a month on monday
 
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ill do ya favour b...

Don't be a dick, give serious advice..

now having said that.. ill drop some advice.. she might just be nervous man.. i do that when im with a girl i really like around other people.. i get all nervous.. dont talk, and some times avoid them.. or just come off like a tool.. but when alone im fine..

so she may just be nervous..

a neg posibility is you embarass her or make her nervous... might not even be anythign bad that youre doing.. if youre over affectionate, or too open with her around other people it may embarass her.. this girl im really digging now always calls me sexy and hot and some times around other people. and im not used to that so it makes me nervous.. or she cracks sexual jokes and i get nervous again....

so ya never know.. that may be it..

don't think about it too hard... if she was lacking interest she wouldnt be fine when you guys are alone..
 

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bob005 said:
she doesn't like you. break up with her. quit fighting a loosing battle. seriously.
I would have to agree with Bob005. Cuz my friend's gf did the same thing to him, and she refused to do anything with him at all when other peeps were around. So my friend decided to dump her and it was the best decision he ever made. I would have to opt with the dumping option, unless she is really really really ridiculously HOT!!, or has an awesome personality or somethin. You should put a pic up so that we can decide.

Or you should just bring her aside and have a casual talk and discuss ur problems.
 

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i have no pics
she is pretty hott
i have to talk to her
its not that she refuses to do anything she just doesnt talk
 
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Same with me, we went on this like scary house of horror thing one october with my gf, and she like ignored me, never clung on to me or anything, i mean she was actually like rubbing up with this other kid that was there, and both her and I knew everyone else knew we were dating. So anyways i dumped her, and that was the end of that.
 

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hmmm... i gotcha... well u should just call her up and have a talk.
 

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i agree with bob, but he put it quite bluntly. if she ignores you around other peopel that IS a sign she isnt interested in you. i dated a girl just like that. took me 2 months to realize she didnt like me.

talk to her. call her. get her alone and talk. whatever. you need to be up front with her about how you feel about how she ignores you. if she dumps you, then at least you know why shes ignoring you.

dont be naive and say she just doenst know how to show her affection. ignoring you is not a way ANYONE shows that they like someone that theyare DATING. seriously, talk to her about it. or dont and just be ignored..
 

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i apologize, i did put it quite bluntly, but it got it across. a lot of my friends are suckers for *****es that sting them in the ass, and it happens the same way it's happening to you
 

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damn we talked it out and we are just friends now
its better off for both of us
we might try again later i dont know
 

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**** happens...another lady will come along soon.

one of the best tips i can give you...dont give girls what they want all the time. they want to feel like a guy is a challenge. so if your always calling her, always worried something is wrong, and always doing everything she asks, shell dump u cuz she knows ur a sucker. girls just cant be happy with a nice guy that adores them...they like the assholes that they have to work at
 

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dhill0413 said:
one of the best tips i can give you...dont give girls what they want all the time. they want to feel like a guy is a challenge. so if your always calling her, always worried something is wrong, and always doing everything she asks, shell dump u cuz she knows ur a sucker. girls just cant be happy with a nice guy that adores them...they like the assholes that they have to work at
Works spoken from a true wise man.. could not have put it better my self. Do not worry man there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
 
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dhill.. youre right.. it sucks.. i made the mistake of being drunk around the girl i like and told her that i really like her and all that stuff.. i mean yeah it shouldnt be a big deal.. but she may think like.. well ive got em now... but i think shes way to cool to do anything like that..
 
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