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OK so here is the deal. My mom is like a Midwife. Actually its called a Doula. (www.dona.org). So basically she can deliver babies and such. So she has a friend, who has a daughter, who has a friend that is pregnant and is in labour right now! Problem is, she is at her house. She is going to jail in a week, so if she has the baby in the hospital, they will take it away and put it up for adoption.

She wants to sign the baby over to my mom's friend (her sister's mother) as soon as she gives birth. But my mom is not sure if she should encourage this act. For one, I don't think it's legal. But also, my mom is scared to do it. She is relatively new to delivering babies, only done like 4 births.

What would you do if you were her? Obviously she wouldn't listen to a forum of 'kids,' but really, just for fun, what do you think? Should she go through with it?
 

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Well obviously, she is having the baby whether she likes it or not. She should have the baby at her house, and spend as much time with it as she can. Then, the baby should be signed over to the person who is closest to her, and is legally able to adopt the baby. Anything's better than making the baby have unfamiliar foster parents.
 

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well my first question is how long is the girl in jail for? and if i were her i would hand the baby to the closest family member but thats just my opion
 

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Telling a forum full of people that probably know enough about you to locate you that your mom may be about to commit a felony was your first mistake.

If, however, it is not a felony then I'm sure the baby would live a much happier life if it is raised in a loving environment than if it were in state custody.
 

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dhill0413 said:
Don't let your mom get screwed cuz some chick that is going to jail got knocked up.
Ya, she made like 3094832904 phone calls and decided to just lay off.

Besides, she hasn't been having any more labor pains for a while, so maby it was false... Not to mention its sounding more and more like a crack baby...
 

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is she going to JAIL, or PRISON? the former is <1 year, the latter >1 year.
 

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My bad, She is going to prison. I know the difference, but I made a mistake.

She still hasn't had the baby...
 

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have her do it in the hospital. I didn't just pull that outa my ass. It might be different on the players involved. If mommy is going to prison soon then little unborn baby shouldn't be there for her. It sucks yea but think about the kid. Maybe 2nd in comand mommy is a great loving person who will tend to babies every need but..there is still mommy number 1 what is sitting in lock up waiting to contaminate her life.

You talk about foster homes and state custody. the baby isn't even born yet. that means its pure gold. the wait list on a baby for adoption is like years. there is someone waiting with the room painted and cradle in hand waiting for some knocked up teenager who wasn't on crack to give up there baby so a some what rich loving family can call it there own. That kid won't see foster homes. it won't see orphanages. It will grow up to be a spoiled little kid who one day will blow up at the people who have loved her/him for the last 17 years or so. He/r will talk about how much s/he hates them and wishes she was with he/r real mom...who is in lock up again after doing the same **** over again/end o story

tl;dr
adoption is cash mom for baby
real mom can't provide as well for her
your mom will go to prison with her
you should run more because you are starting to look a little flabby
tell your mom not to do it
 
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